Concrete Acts of Love

In our Wednesday Class we recently heard an interview of Kathleen Norris, spiritual writer and poet who became well known for her book, Dakota: a Spiritual Geography. She moved from New York City to live in her grandparent’s house in a small town in

South Dakota – can you imagine? She discusses the little Presbyterian Church she eventually joined and when I consider that church it feels like going back I time. Here in the suburbs of a big city we live in a more transitional, fast paced world. (I wonder if they have soccer in that small town… if so certainly not on Sundays!) In our world we have little time for Sabbath, as resistance or just as rest. And rather than being surrounded by vast open plains we have streets, cars, condos, fast food restaurants and Jiffy Lubes (just to name a few) – it is a highly commercialized environment. As a result people who first come to church likely have a consumerist mindset. Yet, Norris says that deep down (and I think she is including even New Yorkers in this) people yearn for connection – for community where a language is used that is different than they see in the media. I want to believe that.

I am jealous of the big churches that have a program for everything. How attractive in our world; groups for young parents and empty nesters, singles too. How can we compete? Our last module in Beta Vitality was on “Connecting: Helping People Participate in Your Church.” The first thing said is that connecting is not about programs but relationships. Programs may encourage relationships, but they also may not. If one is a consumer one may not be looking for relationships so that when the service changes one leaves. If people are really looking for a community of relationships, even if they don’t know it, then the important thing is to connect with people personally no matter the circumstance. I was asked at the meeting how people connect at Cedar Cross. We don’t have a specific program for connecting people – it’s more of a collection of possibilities. The Adult Sunday School connects people as does the Wednesday study. Saints and Sinners, potlucks, game nights, musical groups, the UMW and the Men’s Group, and even committees all serve as places to connect. It seems, according to the module that more important than the type of event or group it is the spirit of that group. The module says that one of the most important things in getting people to come back to our church is observing how we interact with each other. There are many strategies that a church can use – and we will be looking into those, but what really matters in getting people connected is being sincerely interested in the people who come to Church. And nothing works better in involving someone than personally inviting them.

We have been blessed with many new people at Cedar Cross recently. We have to remember how hard it is to come into a church where you don’t know anyone. It is our job on Sundays to be connectors – to understand our role and responsibility by being a part of this Church is to connect with people – ask about people, and maybe even invite them to one of these groups and events that make up our Church. That is the heart of the matter. That is who we are called to be. One of the definitions for “sin” that Kathleen Norris offered comes from a Benedictine monk she is acquainted with: “failure to do concrete acts of love.” One thing about a Church, there is ample opportunity for concrete acts of love. See you in worship, in Sunday School, and elsewhere. P.Jim

Sabbath Resistance

Some will remember the movie, “Chariots of Fire” about the 1924 Olympic Games in Paris. One of the runners for Great Britain, Eric Liddell was a devote Presbyterian from Scotland and when he was informed that his first heat for the 100 yard dash was on Sunday he refused to run. At the time I thought he was foolish, even selfish; he let down his team. Now we have soccer on Sunday mornings and I wonder, is anything sacred?

At times strange coincidences occur that leave me scratching my head, wondering whether this involves the Holy Spirit. A few weeks ago in our Wednesday Study we viewed an interview of Old Testament scholar, Walter Brueggemann. Subsequently I mentioned part of that interview in my sermon on October 19th. Then I was casing the new books at the library and I ran into a small volume that Brueggemann wrote recently (less than 100 pages) entitled, Sabbath as Resistance: Saying NO to the Culture of Now. The title caught my attention because I usually think of Sabbath as rest and I admonish people that we all need rest. Sabbath is also time to spend alone with God. But Sabbath as resistance? When is comes to soccer on Sunday mornings I feel it!

Sabbath is not only resistance. It is alternative. It is an alternative to the demanding, chattering, pervasive presence of advertising and its great liturgical claim of professional sports that devour all our “rest” time.

The alternative on offer is the awareness and practice of the claim that we are situated on the receiving end of the gifts of God.

For Brueggamann taking time for Sabbath is not just a healthy choice, it has an ethical component; it is saying NO to what he calls the Culture of Now. He identifies four ways that this NO happens: resistance to anxiety, coercion, exclusion and multitasking. My favorite of these is multitasking. I am one of those who believe that multitasking is impossible; the mind cannot focus on more than one thing at a time and switches back and forth. When this happens quickly we call it multitasking. For Brueggeman, Sabbath would mean resisting the temptation to be doing many things at once even if we are taking the day off on Sunday. And this is where it gets rough – I believe Brueggaman would say that because Sabbath as resistance means to disengage from any activity that it connected to advertising, competition, shopping or entertainment. This is more than resisting soccer on Sundays. I think he would say that to really have a Sabbath that is rest we would need to put away our cell phones for a day – for the rest, but also as a way to disengage from the whole world of commercialism. It is to say NO to this world in order to reconnect to God’s world.

The departure from (this) system in our time is not geographical. It is rather emotional, liturgical, and economic. It is not an idea but a practical act… (it is) an act of submission to the restful God… divestment so that neighborly engagement, rather than production and consumption, defines our lives.

There are times when I wish I lived in the world of Eric Liddell. On the one hand it feels strict and oppressive, but on the other hand when I imagine a whole day disconnected from the world of winning and losing, of production and commerce, of information and to do lists, I feel like it would be very healing. It will not happen… easily, at least, but maybe in baby steps? And not just for myself but also for the world. P.Jim

Stewardship: Why Give to Cedar Cross?

We have begun our annual Stewardship program.  Each year at this time we focus on our giving, and we ask all to fill out a pledge card (estimation of giving in the coming year) so we can formulate a budget and plan for the future.  That’s the practical side of it but it is much more than that.

This year we will be using a program entitled “Treasure” which is based on the sixth chapter of Matthew, the root verse being v.21: For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.  It is also a special time (kairos time) spiritually too.  In my sermons I will not talk about giving money; I will talk about money but in the context of our relationship to God.  Jesus talked about money, but always in the context of our relationship with God.  Asking about our “treasure” invokes mention of money but in a spiritual sense – what is ultimately important to us.  For stewardship to be meaningful and also successful it must connect to that question.  If we ask, why give to CCUMC it too must be asked as a spiritual question.

Being a part of a church is different than belonging to any other group or institution in our world.  Instead of simply participating, we belong.  As we belong the congregation becomes our spiritual home.  Ideally, in addition to the family, the church becomes a part of our identity and purpose.  As such, it is where we grow and develop our selves, ask the deepest questions of our lives, and nurture our souls.  John Wesley’s famous question given to the early leaders of bands and societies (small groups) was, “How is your heart today?”  I believe we do this in many ways at Cedar Cross UMC.  I also believe that there are many people in our surrounding community who need a place like this in their lives – and often they don’t know it.  A fundamental part of our mission is to reach out to people, not to convince them to believe as we do, but to invite them into this community of faithful people so that their lives may be transformed and as we come to know them our lives will be transformed as well.  As long as I have been involved in the church I cannot imagine life without it.

Being a part of a United Methodist Church means that we are connected with other UM churches all over the world.  We are known as a “connectional” church – at the opposite end would be an independent, non-denominational, sometimes called “community” churches.  Connection is at the heart of who we are – in our families, within the fellowship at Cedar Cross, and then with other churches.  It is as a connectional church that we are able to be in ministry all over the world.  Our aim is to be larger than ourselves – to be in mission in our immediate community, and then as we work together in communities outside our immediate area.  Locally, we participate in Teen Feed and the local VOA Food Bank.  Regionally, we are connected to the ministry of institutions like the Atlantic Street Center in the Rainier Valley area of Seattle which provides services to disadvantaged children and youth.  Through our Annual Conference, our youth are able to attend events (retreats, camps, Convocation) that become a valuable part of their spiritual development.  And we are connected to ministries all over the world.  We are in Haiti and Nepal, Congo and the Philippines.  And through the United Methodist Committee on Relief when a disaster occurs in the world we are there – sometimes faster than the government!  I feel proud of the missional focus of our denomination and Cedar Cross.

Finally, and more specifically regarding Cedar Cross, this is simply a great church!  It is full of amazing people who exude a spirit of acceptance and grace.  The Spirit is surely alive here!  We have become a Reconciling Congregation, fully accepting LGBT persons into the life of our Church, thus truly living out our denomination’s motto, Open Hearts, Open Minds and Open Doors.  We are growing, both spiritually and numerically (the District Superintendent and Bishop are particularly happy about this).  Being a part of this Church nurtures our souls and our families, provides a platform for global ministry in the world, and it’s fun to be here.

What more could anyone want?  P.Jim

The Bible Tells Me So

I am proud that we are a Reconciling Congregation because of the Bible, not in spite of it.

In the United Methodist Church Reconciling Congregations are those that are open to lesbian, bisexual, gay and transgendered people (LGBT). We invite them to participate fully in the life of the Church. We support same sex marriage and the ordination of LGBT people.

One of my father’s professors at Yale Divinity School, Roland Bainton, used the distinction between precedence and principle in biblical interpretation. Precedence is any single event of verse which is lifted for its context and given unqualified authority. For example, one could use the words of Jesus to the rich man, “go and sell all you own and give it to the poor” as a definitive mandate for everyone to do just that. Looking at precedence the people who owned slaves have the Bible on their side. To look for principles in biblical interpretation is to see texts imbedded in a larger story – in the Old Testament it is the story of the people of Israel and their covenant with God. In the New Testament it is the story of Jesus – let us not forget that biblically Jesus is the Word of God, not the Bible.

So what do we do with the passages in the Bible that seem to be so clear about homosexuality? What we don’t do is use them as precedence. We also study the context and the larger meaning of the passage. I have been asked to give an explanation of these texts:

Leviticus 18:22

You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.

At face value, read as a single verse this seems pretty clear, but it isn’t. The Law, the Holiness Code in Leviticus comprises the details for living in covenant with God – 613 of them, to be exact. An important part of that covenant was for the people of Israeli to survive and prosper. To do so they needed offspring. We forget how hard it was for a child to survive into adulthood at that time. There was always a fear that the people would die out.

As a patriarchal culture women were seen primarily as the source of those offspring; women were seen essentially as incubators. Men put their seed in a woman and she gave birth to a child, preferably a male child. The seed of men was understood as the sole source of children and to use that seed for any other purpose was seen as a violation of the covenant and thus an abomination.

Onan was condemned for “spilling his seed upon the ground” rather than impregnating his brother’s widow as was demanded in the Law. This story of Onan could be used as precedence for the condemnation of masturbation – and it has; which brings up the issue of consistency. There are a lot of things in the 613 laws of the Holiness Code that we violate constantly. Eating pork is also called an abomination.

Women were considered unclean while menstruating – and they were segregated. When a woman gives birth to a boy she is considered unclean for seven days, if it is a girl it’s two weeks. One cannot pick and choose verses from Leviticus and make then universally authoritative. It is simple an abuse of the Bible.

Genesis 19:

Sodom and Gomorrah

Because the story contains a threat for men to “know” other men it is viewed as a condemnation of all homosexual activity. But the story is not about homosexuality. It is much more about hospitality. Two “angels” come into town and Lot shows them hospitality by inviting them into his home. The people of Sodom already don’t like Lot because he is an alien. They become angry and surround Lot’s house threatening to rape the visitors. Lot will not let the visitors out. Instead he offers his two virgin daughters in their place (now that would be an awful precedence!).

More important than the gender of those to be harmed is the spirit of violence and exclusion in the people; it is this spirit that leads to the condemnation of Sodom and Gomorrah. To be true to the Bible, we have to first ask, what if the Bible trying to say. In this case the more intrinsic message is that exclusion and violence toward strangers is a violation of the covenant. Ironically, and this is where the Bible can be so confounding, that includes homosexuals.

Genesis 1:27

Male and female He created them

“God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve,” goes the quip. That God created men and women is often seen as reason enough to support our understanding of marriage between a man and a woman. The truth is, the Bible doesn’t have a single or clear understanding of marriage. It has many things to say about marriage that would not support our understanding of it. In the Old Testament men and numerous wives and fathered children by slaves. In the New Testament Paul instructs the nascent followers of Jesus to marry only if they cannot control themselves but it is better to stay single like him It is difficult to find a passage in the Bible that addresses men and women and marriage that would be appropriate for a wedding. The issue usually is procreation, not orientation.

Romans 1:26-27

For this reason God gave them up to degrading passions. Their women exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural, and in the same way also the men, giving up natural intercourse with women, were consumed with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and received their own persons the due penalty for their error.

Wow! That seems pretty clear. As precedence it is, in its context it is less so. I have no doubt that homosexual activity was seen in a negative way, as a part of the condemnation of any sexual activity the purpose of which was to procreate. What Paul is complaining about is people giving in to their passions. “For this reason” refers to the impurity of their hearts in general. The mention of homosexuality is an example of this impurity and giving in to passions.

If one reads on there is a longer list: they are filled with every kind of wickedness, evil covetousness, malice; full of envy, they are gossips, slanderers, heartless and ruthless. Then at the beginning of chapter two Paul says, ironically: Therefore you have no excuse, whoever you are, when you judge others, for in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, are doing the very same things. When using precedence one often doesn’t read on. What Paul is addressing is rebellion against God, in any of its forms. One way in which to rebel against God is expressed sexually. Men were in the habit of visiting temple prostitutes, many of whom were boys. This is likely the kind of behavior Paul had on his mind.

To rebel against God is more about “hypersexuality” than it is specifically homosexuality. It is about prostitution, sexual abuse, friends with benefits, pornography, etc. It is when sexuality becomes a selfish act, regardless of love and care and outside of covenant. Speaking of precedence, there was no precedence for a loving and committed same sex covenant relationship. They simply could not have conceived of such a thing. To suggest that this passage in Romans is a blanket condemnation of this kind of relationship misses the point and becomes a judgment, which Paul more clearly condemned.

An overarching principle in the Old Testament is covenant: God’s covenant with the people of Israel. It is clear that it is in and through covenant that the Spirit of God works – the covenants we make in our communities, in marriage and with our children. To extend this covenant to all people seems to me to be biblical. In the New Testament love is an essential principle. If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels but do not have love… what am I? To take the Bible seriously we have to think more broadly and deeply, and more lovingly.

Pastor Jim

What’s Next For Cedar Cross?

One of the questions for Questions Sunday was, “We’ve become a Reconciling Congregation, what’s next?” I love this question because it’s one I ask myself, and I want to ask all of you.

Becoming a Reconciling Congregation has energized our Church. It has honed our sense of identity and purpose, excited us about our ministry in the world and given us a message to share with others in our community. There are people who have come to our Church because of our becoming Reconciling. I am very proud of Cedar Cross UMC; special thanks to the members of the Open Hearts committee who helped us to be transformed. But that cannot be the end of it.

In the sermon I preached on the day we celebrated becoming Reconciling I said that I do not see this as an end, but as a beginning. It is about making sure a certain group of people are loved, accepted and invited to fully participate in the life of the church, but underneath that is the spirit of love and acceptance for all. Where does that spirit lead us now? What shall we do with the spiritual momentum we have acquired? We are growing in all ways – spiritually, as a community, with new faces and stories. What do we do with this energy? I really mean to ask everyone these questions and welcome feedback.

The Beta-Vitality Task Force is working on these questions – we have met now for one year and have one year to go. We have talked about small groups, hospitality and spiritual disciplines; our last module was on marketing. The motivation for my choosing the book I did for Adult Sunday School (Thirsty for God a Brief History of Christian Spirituality) is because of our focus on small groups and spiritual disciplines. (When we started this last fall we took a number of tests/surveys which indicated that this was an area in which we need to grow.) We have had at least 30 in class each Sunday and over 50 participating! This is one place where we must continue to give our spiritual energy. To continue to develop relationships and grow as a community is vital to our future.

And then I think about reaching out. Becoming Reconciling drew us together as a community but it also was reaching out – it was a political statement to our Church and to the culture at large. We have also been spiritually invigorated because we were doing something that was larger than ourselves, that we felt was a witness to the gospel of Jesus Christ. We need this too. Where will that underlying spirit, that value of love and acceptance take us outside of our community? Are there other issues in our society that we feel passionate about? The plight of the poor, healthcare, the environment, etc? At Fairwood UMC we became a Greening Congregation, a designation that is offered by Earth Ministry here in Seattle. In addition to highlighting environmental issues the Greening Committee took out all the ivy and blackberries from their small patch of wetland and planted native plants – they made bat houses, sold trees and worked on trails.

Another group that we could enter into relationship with is Faith Action Network which is doing the same kind of work that used to be done by the Washington Association of Churches – mostly political lobbying. Currently they are working for the passage of Initiative 594 which would close the loophole allowing for guns to be sold without a background check. Is this a path we would like to take?

I feel the Spirit alive at Cedar Cross UMC. But where will it take us now? I would love to hear from you. Pastor Jim

Opportunities to Serve

Here are some of the opportunities to participate or serve in the Cedar Cross community:

Caring Committee

The Caring Committee meets every Monday at 10:00 am. We review the joys and concerns voiced on Sunday; we manage the Prayer Chain; we send cards; we provide meals to people in our congregation who are in need; and we pray. Anyone who would like to give energy to the care of our Church family is welcome to attend. Contact Pastor Jim (pastorjimc@frontier.com).

Children’s Council

The Children’s Council is responsible for Sunday School, Vacation Bible School and family events throughout the year. They usually meet on Sunday evenings at the same time as Youth Group because a number of the members are parents of youth. They always have coffee and something to eat. They also claim to have the most fun. If you would like to support the children of the Church please join us. Contact Jen Hoerber (jenrenee1209@gmail.com).

Youth Council

As one would figure, this group supports the youth ministry. They plan youth events and support our Youth Leaders, Geoff and Katie Albright. The Council is made up of youth and youth parents, but it would be nice to have people who don’t have youth children but are committed to supporting our youth. Contact Diane Cunningham Diane (206-799-9339).

Stewardship

The Stewardship Committee runs the Stewardship campaign every fall, but they do more than that. They work on making the congregation aware of the needs of the Church and our obligations to support it. Obviously, stewardship is a vital ministry of the Church and it needs some committed people to join them. Contact Larry States (larstates@comcast.net).

Finance

The work of the Finance Committee is the nuts and blots of the finances of our Church. It is important and necessary work and they always need new people to join them. Contact Larry States (larstates@comcast.net).

Missions Committee

The Missions Committee organizes and supports the various outreach programs of our Church including Teen Feed, the Food Bank, and the Interfaith Shelter. It you are interested in outreach ministry please join this committee. Contact Dianne Bjorn with questions (425) 501-0155.

Worship Committee

The Worship Committee has six members: Charlotte Cordner, Linda Irving, Diane Van Dorn, Jennifer Hobson, Linda States and Elaine Salisbury. The strive to provide a sacred space for worship. In addition, we work closely with Pastor Jim to enhance worship each week and throughout the liturgical year. All are welcome to provide us with ideas and suggestions, or join us on the Committee.

Welcoming Committee

This Committee’s focus is visitors and reaching out to new people (used to be called evangelism). By whatever name, it works at both extending our visibility and being hospitable to new people. If you are interested in making our church more welcoming please join us. Contact Camille Williams camille.williams@frontier.com.

United Methodist Women

There are two groups of the United Methodist Women, a daytime group and an evening group. The UMW has focused on mission since its inception. It is also an opportunity for fellowship with other women in the Church. Join us. For morning UMW contact Elise Makemson (425-210-5021). For evening UMW Elaine Salisbury (es.dance@frontier.com).

Men’s Club

The Men’s Club meets on the first Saturday morning of each month for breakfast and fellowship. They also work on and support various projects around the Church. Join us.! Contact George Hobson (ghobson04@frontier.com).

The Church Has a Story, Too

I have a memory of a seminary professor making a comment, after a long discussion about a book in the Bible, considering it’s context, literary style, form and structure he said, “well, in the end we have stories.”

We all have stories; I would also say that our lives are stories, stories that carry meaning. The lives of each of us tells a faith story, are a kind of “word of God.” And each time we are able to share some of our story the Holy Spirit is with us. I have often said that when a new person comes to our community we are blessed with a new story, and new “word of God.” An important part of being the church is sharing those stories. We create smaller groups for people to be able to share. Please think about joining Saints and Sinners, the Adult Sunday School class, the Wednesday study, the Men’s group, UMW, choir, even in committees we spend time sharing. We ask, “How is your heart today?” Each time we meet is an opportunity to share our stories.

The Church has a story too. In our Adult Sunday School class we will be using a book by Bradley Holt entitled, Thirsty for God: A Brief History of Christian Spirituality. It tells the story of Christianity – in brief, as the title implies. I have found that most people don’t know this story. To be frank, not that many people are interested in history – who wants their child to be a history major? But much of who we are is inherited – and I’m not talking about genetics. I believe that in a spiritual sense, stories are also inherited. Family stories – think of how much of whom we are comes from our families! I think faith stories live in us too, and whether we are aware of it or not, the story of the Church is our story and it lives in us.

At first glance this book may seem academic. There are lists of famous theologians, church and spiritual leaders, and we may be reminded of high school history where we had to memorize the presidents (just kidding, I know they don’t do that anymore). But the point of becoming acquainted with historical figures is not to memorize but to imagine how they experienced God – and to further imagine how that way of experiencing God relates to how we experience God. The book is not the text, in the end, we are the text. Our understanding of the story of the Church is quite limited – we see only a narrow spectrum of it; what we see in the churches around us represents just a little of the story. To see the larger story of God’s work in the world provides an opportunity for us to see our own lives with God differently, more expansively.

In the end we have stories. Come and share with us on Sunday mornings.

Pastor Jim

Now What?

A number of people have approached me to ask, “Now that we are a Reconciling Congregation what happens next?” The first thing is for us to be officially recognized as a new Reconciling Congregation by the Reconciling Ministries Network at our Annual Conference on June 21st. With that we will be on the list of UM Churches that are open to LGBT people. The value of this is, people who are concerned about this issue and are looking for a church often refer to this list. After these two things the next steps are largely up to us.

In my mind, in the simplest terms, being a Reconciling Congregation allows us to live out fully our motto, Open Hearts, Open Minds and Open Doors; wherever that takes us. We are now able to include this in ever way we interact with our community and the world – on the website, in our services, in our new member classes, Through the Preschool and most importantly, by word of mouth. I believe there are many people out there who are not attending church because they assume that all churches would be on the other side of this issue. In that sense, what happens next is for us to become excited about who we are and share it with the world!

In a more pastoral sense it means that we are able to care for people who are hurting. In each other presentations during worship people shared about people they knew who were affected by this – often the stories included some pain and suffering. We are now fully able and called to reach out to people who are excluded – and as I said in a recent sermon, I believe this will inspire us to reach out to all people who are left out. In the 26 years I have been in ministry I have always had to look over my shoulder when I have talked about how I feel about this – now I intend to look straight ahead.

I was also asked if there would be any cost or punishment for doing this. The answer it no. The Reconciling Ministries Network is, for obvious reasons, not an official part of the UMC. In taking this action we are not following or accountable to the Discipline. The only way we would be face some sort of sanction is if we were to perform a same sex marriage in our Church. That discussion may arise, but there are no consequences for becoming a Reconciling Church.

Once again, what happens next is up to all of us. I would encourage everyone, youth and adults to share with others about what we have done. Let the Word go out. Amen. Pastor Jim

The Bible Tells Me So

I am in favor of becoming a Reconciling Congregation because of the Bible, not in spite of it. One of my father’s professors as Yale Divinity School, Roland Bainton used the distinction between precedence and principle in biblical interpretation. Precedence is any single event or verse which is lifted from its context and given unqualified authority. One could, for example use the words of Jesus to the rich man, “go and sell all you own and give it to the poor” as a definitive mandate for everyone to do just that. Looking at precedence the people who owned slaves had the Bible on their side. To look for principles in biblical interpretation is to see texts as imbedded in a larger story – in the Old Testament it is the story of the people of Israel and their covenant with God. In the New Testament it is the story of Jesus – let us not forget that biblically Jesus is the Word of God, not the Bible.

I have heard that at one of the meetings to watch the video The Bible Tells Me So sponsored by the Open Hearts Committee it was requested that I share about specific texts in the Bible that are often used to condemn homosexuality. (Confession: I have not seen the video so this may all be a repeat for those who saw it.) One of the things we will see is that these texts are used as precedence and not principle.

Leviticus 18:22: You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.

This is the text from the Old Testament that is used most often. It seems direct and conclusive, but then so much of Leviticus does. The Law, the Holiness Code in Leviticus comprises the details of living in covenant with God – 613 of them, to be exact. An important part of that covenant was for the people of Israel to survive, multiply and prosper. To do this they needed offspring. Essentially, women were seen as incubators – men put there seed in them and women gave birth to children, male children, preferably. To use that seed outside of that purpose was seen as a violation of the covenant. Onan was condemned for “spilling his seed upon the ground.” Notice there is no mention of women lying with women – they may not have cared. Furthermore, to view this verse as authoritative and not the rest of Leviticus is problematic. Eating pork is also termed an abomination, as well as many other things. Women were considered unclean while menstruating – and they were segregated. When a woman gives birth to a boy she is considered unclean for seven days, if it is a girl it’s two weeks. One cannot pick and choose and when we do that is when we abuse the Bible.

Genesis 19: Sodom and Gomorrah

Because the story contains a threat for men to “know” other men it is viewed as a condemnation of all homosexual activity. But the story is not about homosexuality. It is much more about hospitality, and the lack of it. Two “angels” come into town and Lot shows them hospitality by inviting them into his home. The people of Sodom already don’t like Lot because he is an alien. They are angry and surround his house threatening to rape the visitors. Lot will not let them out. Instead he offers his two virgin daughters in their place (now there’s precedence for you!). More important than the gender of those to be harmed is the spirit of violence in the people – that spirit of violence is the reason for the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah. Violence toward strangers is also a violation of the covenant, whoever they are.

Genesis 1:27: …male and female God created them.

“God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve” goes the quip, witty and cute. That God created men and women is often seen as reason enough to support our understanding of marriage between a man and a woman. The truth is, the Bible doesn’t have a lot of good to say about marriage, at least as we envision it. In the Old Testament men had numerous wives and fathered children by slaves. In the New Testament Paul instructs the nascent followers of Jesus to marry only if they can’t control themselves but it is better to stay single like him. Procreating was the issue, not sexual orientation.

Romans 1:26-27: For this reason God gave them up to degrading passions. Their women exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural, and in the same way also the men, giving up natural intercourse with women, were consumed with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and received their own persons the due penalty for their error.

This is the numero uno text for the condemnation of homosexuality. As precedence it is clear; in context is less so. It was the habit of men to visit temple prostitutes, many of whom were boys – this was the kind of homosexuality they knew. Speaking of precedence, there was none for a committed relationship between persons of the same gender. On the face of things, Paul likely did view homosexuality as perverse, but how he would have viewed a covenantal same sex relationship we just can’t say. “For this reason…” refers to the impurity of their hearts in general. The mention of homosexuality is an example of that impurity. If one reads on there is a longer list: They were filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, covetousness, malice. Full of envy, they are gossips, slanderers, God-haters, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventers of evil, rebellious towards parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, and ruthless. Then at the beginning of chapter two Paul says this, ironically: Therefore you have not excuse, whoever you are, when you judge others; for in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, are doing the very same things. When using precedence in the Bible one often doesn’t read on. What Paul is addressing is rebellion against God, in any form. One way in which to rebel against God is expressed sexually. But that sort of rebellion is not about homosexuality, it is about “hypersexuality.” It is when sexuality becomes a selfish act, outside of love or care, outside of any covenant, with little or no regard for others. I feel that the greater evil of visiting the temple prostitutes was not their gender but that they were likely children and it was not consensual. “Friends with benefits” is more dangerous to the fabric of our society that two women living in covenant with each other for 25 years!

Again, we must read the Bible looking for principle and not precedence. The word for “Word” in the Gospel according to John as in the “Word of God” is Logos, and it can be translated in numerous ways: mind, thought, spirit and also principle. One could as easily translate the first verse of John saying, “The Principle was with God and the Principle was God.” And that “principle” is, once again, Jesus. And if Jesus is about anything it is love.

An overarching principle of the OT is covenant: God’s covenant with the people of Israel. It is clear that it is in and through covenant that the Spirit of God works. I believe this about the covenants we make in our lives – covenants with our children, in our church and when we marry. To extend covenant to all people seems to me to be terribly biblical. In the NT love is an essential principle. If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels but do not have love…what am I? And who wrote that? The same person who wrote chapter one of Romans. To take the Bible seriously we have to think about that. This is a brief clarification of the texts used to condemn homosexuality, and an example of what I think it means to take the Bible seriously. There is much more to say and if anyone has questions I welcome them. P.Jim

Stories

I was delighted to hear Dan Church speak this past Sunday, and it’s not because I got a Sunday off! Dan shared a story he heard on NPR about a photographer who was in Ethiopia who was moved by a story of a woman named “Amazing” being helped by a man named “Grace.” (Dan’s sermon is posted on the website.) Then, underneath all of this was Dan’s own story, as he shared with us some of his upbringing and Bible stories that moved him.

On top of that, I had just returned from the SUMYT Youth Retreat at Indianola where the theme of the camp was…stories. Rev. Jim Head-Corliss built his presentation around a children’s story, and as it true at every gathering of youth in our Conference there were “faith talks” in which youth share some of their stories – particularly something about how they have experienced God in their lives. For me the juxtaposition of all of this was an experience of God – a “thin place” – that is now incorporated into my story.

Then, on Monday evening Rev. John Haller, our coach who is leading us through the Beta-Vitality process, while speaking to a group of us gathered to discuss Radical Hospitality, started out by sharing some of his own…. story. For example, he shared with us about a young woman from a sorority (not being a “Greek” the particular sorority alluded me) invited him to attend the United Methodist Church in Austin, Texas. This woman eventually became his spouse, and he was then also connected to that Church for the rest of his life. He says that most of his best friends remain in that Church. And he shared with us about how he was once invited to a six week class about some of the fundamentals of faith (kind of like our Reconfirmation class) and how moved he was by the openness of the discussions – any question was allowed and everyone was welcome. He then went on his own theological quest that eventually led to ordination in the United Methodist Church. Both of these experiences changed his life.

We were also invited to share with each other about a time when we experienced hospitality. After he recognized that two minutes was not enough time and he gave us five more, I found myself sharing about when I was in 8th grade and going through a tough time in junior high, my mother kept encouraging me to go to the youth group at church. For the longest time I resisted – being introverted and wounded by other youth at school. Finally I agreed, but hesitated again when we arrived and I sat for quite a while in the car… crying. It took some courage and a very patient mother to get me out of the car and into the building and my life was never the same.

A couple of weeks ago Carol Sullivan brought a friend, Yisrael to our Sunday School class. It became apparent to us that he had an interesting “background,” he grew up Jewish while his partner was Christian and they have gone back and forth over their years together. This got us off topic, but then God in our lives is the topic, isn’t it? I have since decided that in the class each week a person will be invited to tell a little of his/her story. I sincerely want to hear these stories. And that is one of the cores of radical hospitality.

John Haller also told us a story of a pastor who was working on starting a new church. He went to a coffee shop and first put up a sign, “Let me tell you my story and I will buy you a cup of coffee.” There were no takers, for ten hours! Then he changed the sign, “If you buy me a cup of coffee I will listen to your story.” He said there was a line. I told the folks gathered on Monday night that I would even be more radically hospitable than that – my sign would say, “If you let me listen to your story I will buy you a cup of coffee,” that way I would avoid all the caffeine. But then, we may need to add a line item in the budget for that.

People are hungry to be heard. And the stories of people contain a wealth of spiritual insight and wisdom. For me, what makes hospitality “radical” is instead of inviting people to come to us, we feel the urgency to hear their stories, believing that our lives will be changed.

See you in worship. P.Jim